He slept with his client

So one of the things the AS men do not have a sense of is doing the right thing socially. When we separated the first time, he slept with a client. And he also had a romantic affair with another client, there was no physical affair with this one plainly because she is married.

I confronted this married one when my hubs and I got back together the 2nd time, and she denied Nd tried to make light of things, not knowing I have read the text messages she exchanged with him. I asked her if she would show her husband the text messages exchanged she was stunned and caught off guard and hesitated. All I can say is BITCH!

I'm a single mum

It's funny how in life, you just plod along doing what you need to do, and after a while you start to think and feel it is the norm.

Today it just dawned on me that my married life is not normal, never have been. I am in truth a single parent, to a real child, and sometimes to an AS husband. 

I've often wondered why people take such a long time to finish a task. Actually the reason is because I've been so used to doing everything myself, before he took over some of the household chores, that I had to be super efficient, and super fast. My brain works fast because I need to do what I need to do. 

So the truth is I am my daughters only emotional and physical (financial and taking care of stuff) support. The AS Hubster is just there. But completely hollow. He's a shell. Present. But when things don't go his way, the shouting will start.

Yesterday my daughter told me that he doesn't like her daddy any more.

He was on a roll of being the best parent on earth, but as predicted it didn't last long. Mr Hyde is back as my daughter said. I feel sad for her. 

We continue with her therapy next week.....

My marriage in CHARTS!

Found this wonderful resource....http://faaas.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Impacts-and-Deficits-in-NT-ASD-Relationships.pdf

See the charts below by clicking on them to enlarge or download....

He Is Just A F**king Spoilt Brat

Gosh, unbelievable! He is so self centred and conceited, it is unbelievable. Behaves like a f**king spoilt brat, and doesn't know how to work as a team, and he turns around and tells me we have to work on a solution as a team. Why start now, when he has never ever been a team player for the past 11 years! Gosh. I am so angry. All he knows is talk about things, and how things can go HIS WAY!

And he keeps turning around with a 'holier than thou' attitude. It is unbelievable.

HE. NEEDS. TO. GET. OUT.

My 9 year old said to me, oh he is treating me much better these few days. I asked her if she thinks this nice behaviour will stay, she said quite emphatically, no. So I told her to enjoy it while it lasts....