Such Frustrations

So now that we are on our way to a divorce, he finally does something right.

He texted to say that they have arrived safely in the UK. In all the past 11 years of marriage, he has NEVER done the right thing to tell me if they have arrived safely. As a mother I am of course concerned for my daughter's well being. Even with countless reminders, he doesn't keep me posted.

And of course, now he does the right thing!

How infuriating is that?!

Gosh, I could wring his neck

Had a row. Trying to tell him that his actions and not addressing the emotional needs of our daughter is causing problems. And that he must not minimize her experience. He goes in further to minimize it and not addressing her concerns with her, and yet again he goes on to invalidate her feelings!!! When I told him that he needs help so that he can be a more effective father and if he continues to 'harm' our daughter he will not get visitation rights unless supervised. He turns it around and says I'm a bully, 

Can you believe that??? It is exasperating. I really want him out of our lives and have minimal contact as much as possible. I'm so angry now I have all kinds of names I want to call him.